He looked terribly awkward Body language expert reveals the six tell-tale signs that prove why Meghan’s easy confidence will be good for the ‘shy’ royal who mimics his father’s nervous gestures.
They have finally announced that they are due to tie the knot after getting engaged earlier this month.
And Prince Harry and Meghan Markle looked the picture of happiness as they took part in their first official photo call at Kensington Palace today – despite the occasional ‘nervous’ gesture from the shy prince.
Body language expert Judi James tells MailOnline she believes ‘informal, confident’ Meghan is running the show while offering reassurance to camera-shy Harry, who can be seen to mimic his father’s ‘anxious’ hand gestures.
Harry, 33, and his actress fiancée walked hand-in-hand through the gardens of his the west London residence on Monday, where the couple will set up home in Nottingham Cottage.
And Judi, author of The Body Language Bible, says the redhead prince appeared ‘shocked with emotion and affection’ while his partner is clearly ‘the one with all the confidence’.
‘Meghan was the one who rubbed his arm for reassurance twice,’ Judi notes. ‘He looked terribly shy and slightly awkward and gave “tie sign” – something a lot of Hollywood couples do when they’re on the red carpet to tell their partner when to turn for the camera.’
‘It was interesting that Meghan was using little arm rubs with him and patting him. It was almost as though she was choreographing him to say, “Right, we’ll go up the steps and do some more pictures.”‘
Harry’s ‘paperclip hand’
Eagle-eyed royal watchers also noticed Harry was making a bizarre hand gesture at certain moments, tucking half of his right-hand fingers into his jacket – something Judi says is a ‘comfort’ indicator.
‘It’s almost like he’s using his hand as a paperclip to hold his jacket together,’ Judi notes. ‘Both he and William can be incredibly shy; but at the same time, Harry looks completely in love and slightly bewildered by it all.’
Working Cameras Like A Pro
While Harry is used to taking part in public engagements, Meghan is a seasoned expert in front of the camera lens thanks to years spent treading the red carpet at glitzy Hollywood events.
‘She’s quite grown up and more experienced in front of the camera than he is,’ Judi explains. ‘Surprisingly, that will probably be quite a good thing for him.
‘We’ve seen the [public displays of affection] and we know they love each other because they couldn’t keep their hands off each other at the Invictus Games.
‘[Today’s photo call] should have been very formal but it was also incredibly tactile.’
While most royal brides-to-be are keen to show off their engagement ring, Judi notes, Meghan let her diamond dazzler hang casually by her side.
‘She’s obviously got a more casual attitude, but I think it’s going to be very good for him,’ she says. ‘Harry has always been the one who’s allowed to be incredibly informal and this is the first time he’s been formal with a partner.
‘It will be Harry’s first stab at the Buckingham Palace stuff he has been able to cheerfully avoid for most of his life. He’s not naturally good at the formal stuff, but Meghan is good at it because of her job.’
The royal couple arrived an hour later than scheduled for the star-studded evening gala at the London Palladium but were greeted by eager fans and a bunch of flowers for the four-month pregnant Kate.
Kensington Palace tweeted: “The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are tonight attending the @RoyalVariety Performance.
“The Royal Variety Performance takes place every year and is in aid of the @RoyalVariety Charity, of which The Queen is Patron.
“The money raised from the show helps hundreds of entertainers throughout the UK, who need help and assistance.”
Tonight’s Royal Variety performance marks a return to the London Palladium Theatre after the event moved elsewhere for the last two years.
The Palladium has been home to the Royal Variety Performance more than any other venue, hosting the gala 40 times over the decades.
And this year the event is being hosted by comedian Miranda Hart, with guests including the cast of 42nd Street, Paloma Faith, Michael Ball and Seal.
There was a false start to the event as the curtain did not go up for the first act – a glittering tap dance bonanza from the cast of the 42nd Street stage show.
Host Miranda Hart jokingly teased the audience about whether they spotted if anything had gone wrong before reintroducing the act.
Kate, 35, was left in fits of giggles when her husband was forced into a spot of audience participation with the lights shining on him.
Wiliam, 35, enthusiastically took part in a comedy skit with Hart, obligingly shouting her catch-phrase “such fun” on request.
Hart, who said compelling the future King to participate was on her to-do list for her Royal Variety duties, said she later hoped to see him galloping – another one of her trademarks – and “knighting me with a lightsaber”.
Singer James Blunt, who was due to the perform, was a last minute withdrawal after the delayed start meant he would not make an later concert appearance, according to a theatre spokesman.
A Kensington Palace spokesman said the royal couple had been “delayed” but were in time for the start of the performance.
The performance will be shown on ITV in December.
The delayed appearance comes after Scotland Yard urged anyone on Oxford Street to “go into a building” after gunshots were reported at about 4.38pm. One woman was injured as she left the train station.
In Taguatinga, Brazil Jujitsu professor Daryell Dickson Menenzes Xavier was jailed in 2014 after turning self in with help from his lawyer in being sought for the awful and wrong rape of his own 1-year-old son. He has been just as brutally raped by a squad of 20 of his fellow inmates. This happened during his initial 30 day incarceration as he waited for hearing before a presiding judge.
During his jailing Daryell became the focus of the entire local prison resident population. This case of crazed vigilante justice is seen by many as him getting just as he deserved. His son is forever damaged and hurt, so why not Daryell also some have to say.
A gang of a total of 20 inmates have had their ways with him. After the initial assault being committed the jail’s medical staff doctored Daryell with a large number of sutures covering the whole of his back and prominently his anal area. Upon being again instituted inside the prison he was raped and otherwise abused for a second round. Injuries were made over his entire body and especially to the region of his backside. Bloody stains on the seat of his uniform attested to this ‘vigilante justice’ that he has now two times undergone.
Some outsiders are making shouts of calling the actions of the inmates as ‘uncivilized’ and extreme. Most in his native community sanction the events as seemingly karmic in nature. Most side with the vigilantes.
The general public is alarmed, yet hardly anybody is really loudly protesting. Daryell is a marked man wherever he may have to go within the countries prison system.
The rules for marrying a royal. When Prince Harry proposes to Meghan Markle – WHEN, not if (don’t ask us to explain, we can just feel it in our waters) – there are obviously going to be rules that have to be followed. And while we’re all individually devastated here (including the married girls), we’re also collectively VERY EXCITED.
In olden times, royals had to ask the monarch’s permission when they wanted to get married. This dates back to 1701, when the Act of Settlement was passed to stop James II and his Roman-Catholic-loving ways getting back on the throne. Fortunately, we’ve all grown up and moved on – the Queen only needs to grant permission to the first six members of the Royal Family in line to the throne. At the moment, they are Charles, William, George, Charlotte, Harry and Andrew – although the new baby will bump Andrew off the list so he can go mad and run away with a fortune-telling gypsy or a fire-breathing sword-swallower if he likes.
Meghan has been married before, but that won’t prove to be a problem – which was obviously not true for Harry’s Great-Uncle Edward, who was not allowed to marry HIS girlfriend, Wallis Simpson, the two-time American divorcee. Things have changed. Exhibit A: the Duchess of Cornwall. She is divorced, but the Queen was cool with that.
Commoners, rejoice! You too shall be welcomed into the Royal Family if the Queen likes the look of you. The Duchess of Cornwall is a commoner (see above) and so is the Duchess of Cambridge. We could ALL have married Harry. Does this make it better or worse?
The Church of England has confirmed that Harry and Meghan will be allowed to marry in Westminster Abbey, despite her being a divorcee. It’s no big deal; it’s not like William the Conqueror was crowned there. *Omg, William the Conqueror was crowned there*. *Goes all weird with the weight of history, even though that’s not strictly true because the abbey was rebuilt by Henry III in 1245.
Every royal bride since Queen Victoria has myrtle in her wedding bouquet. Not just any old myrtle, though – it’s from the shrub planted by Queen Victoria at Osborne House on the Isle of Wight.
Since the Queen Mother married George VI, royal brides have worn wedding bands that contain Welsh gold from the same nugget mined in North Wales (OK, THAT nugget actually ran out, but the Queen was given another one from the same mine, so it counts). Welsh gold is three times more valuable than other gold. That’s right – it’s more gold than gold. Typical.
Sorry, but there are a few things you have to give up when you marry a royal. Like voting. And shellfish. The first one is because you’re supposed to stay politically neutral – so all your complaining about Brexit and the tax on fags will have to happen behind closed doors. The shellfish thing is not a hard-and-fast rule, but something the Queen advises and observes when abroad in order to avoid any awkward food-poisoning scenarios.
Meghan has given up her website, the Tig. She’s already giving stuff up. Like someone who was about to marry a prince. JUST SAYING.
Heartbreaks are the worst, really! You start dating this person, fall in love, and your entire life and everything else starts revolving around them. All your decisions, do’s and don’ts now have their say in them. You wake up to their call or text, and you sleep to it too. You plan your days according to them, note what they like and what they don’t, prefer spending most of your weekends together and doing things that you both like together. But what happens when one of the two people in a relationship stop giving their hundred percent? What happens when your relationship graph starts going downwards, and your better half doesn’t care?
There are times when we feel that our partner is unfaithful but how do we become sure of it? What are the signs to look out for? What to follow and what not?
I’m here to your rescue, below mentioned are 15 signs that you must notice to figure out whether your partner is cheating on you!
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1. Suspicious mobile phone activities
You notice suspicious computer or cell phone activities of your partner. Secret text messages, calls or even emails. A lot of people out there caught because of these resources!
2. They’re anxious around you
They appear anxious when they’re around or with you, especially when they are alone. Also, they try to leave as soon as possible. They might say that they’re just tired but you don’t feel convinced. Cheating drains their physical and emotional energy! They spend too much time contemplating how to cover their tracks.
3. New hang out friend
They hang around with their new best friend of the opposite sex a hell lot, even more than they spend time with you. 4. Blame game
They start being extremely critical of you and try to turn tables by blaming you for things that you didn’t even do! This is their defense mechanism trying to make them feel better about themselves.
5. Don’t talk anymore
They stop sharing their deep thoughts and feelings with you as they did earlier. Probably because they’re sharing them with someone else?
6. Cancels last minute plans
They have started canceling plans last minute, or even if they show up, they are in a rush to leave and come up with hundred reasons to leave as soon as possible. Still wondering, why?
7. The intimacy is gone
They stop making special plans with you or try doing things that you guys previously did together. You don’t spend any quality time together anymore, and they don’t seem to have a problem with it.
8. Trust your instinct
If you feel there is something fishy, the chances are that there really is something fishy. Always trust your instincts and act according to them.
9. Spending more time with others
They suddenly want you to spend time with other people without them, in the hope of doing the same and answering less questions.
10. They give you a reason to doubt them
If they have cheated on you before, chances are they’ll do it again. Beware while trusting them blindly! We’ve given you a heads up.
11. Friends that you don’t know exist
They suddenly have ‘new friends’ you never knew existed in the first place. All their plans are now with them and you’re usually not invited!
12. Vague explainations
Do not buy it if they cannot give you a satisfactory reason as to why they had to ditch you on your date night or showed up an hour late at your birthday dinner! Don’t doubt them always but if it’s happening again and again, become cautious.
There’s this wave of sudden indifference between you too and they don’t seem to care to resolve it. They will keep talking about wanting to end things or say it’s not working out anymore!
14. Never-ending comparisons
Are they comparing you with other people who earn more, look more better, or have a an attractive personality? The trouble has begun my friend.
The phrase “whatever”. When they start using this to end your arguments instead of finding an appropriate solution, and you think it feels as if they don’t care about your relationship anymore, start looking out for yourself!
Your body goes through certain changes once you grow up. These changes occur more rapidly and distinctly once you hit puberty. You start noticing those changes and if they do not appear normal to you, there is no need to panic!
Talking about the private parts, a lady part loses its tightness when you start having intercourse regularly and this makes most of the couples concerned about it. It’s perfectly normal though and is nothing to be worried about. Having intercourse that regularly comes with some price. But, that doesn’t mean we can’t do anything about it!
The home remedies we’re going to talk about are safe and easy to use and can cure different issues identified with genital area, including odour, an excess of discharge, etc.
You will be surprised at what natural remedies can actually do. They are the real-life hacks that could save you some time, energy and money.
Here are simple tips you can try at home.
Boil some gooseberries in water and store the resultant in a bottle. When you take a bath every day, apply this solution over your lady parts. This will help in restoring the elasticity.
2. Oak Gall
Oak Apple or Oak Gall is round, large apple like Gall commonly found among many species of oak. It is a Thai herb that contains a lubricating and a powerful soothing compound. It helps to tighten the internal walls.
3. Curcuma comosa
Comosa strengthens the walls of your uterus. This herb strengthens the internal walls and the pelvic tissues within a month.
4. Pueraria Mirifica
This is also used for breast enlargement. According to some experts, utilising this natural home remedy is very helpful. It gives your lady part a firmer pull.
5. Witch Hazel
To make the vulva tight, you should grind the powder of this herb and wash your private part with it once a week.
6. Black Cohosh
This is the most used herb when it comes to tightening a lady part.
7. Aloe Vera
It is useful in preventing dryness and irritation in your lady parts. It is also used to attain fast relief from the genital problems. Aloe Vera strengthens the muscles of the vulva. Apply the gel while bathing and wash it off.
Honey can be used to treat vaginal itching that you should not skip out. Honey contains antifungal and antibacterial properties that help you in treating all kinds of microbial infection that cause itching.
-Apply the honey directly on your vaginal area as an ointment.
-Allow it to stay there for 30 minutes and then use lukewarm water to clean it up.
-Repeat this at home twice a day until your problem is resolved
9. Bath With Apple Cider Vinegar
Mix ½ cup of organic apple cider vinegar in your bath water and try soaking your vaginal area in it. Keep your legs wide apart throughout this bathing process, and let water flow freely around your vagina. Bathing with some apple cider vinegar can give you amazing results as it can help in hindering the growth of yeast by killing them with its high contents of acidic pH.
10. Basil Leaves
According to a research conducted on the benefits of basil, Basil leaves contain anti-bacterial, anti-microbial and anti-fungal properties that are very effective in removing the bacteria causing itching.
-Allow the basil leaves to steep in the hot water for about 15-20 minutes.
-Wait until the basil water becomes cool and then drink this water twice daily.
Garlic contains antibiotic and anti-bacterial properties that are responsible for killing bacteria and yeast leading to itching. Garlic also helps in improving the immune system and fighting against infections.
-Firstly, dilute some garlic oil in 1 tsp. of vitamin E oil.
-Apply this oil mixture directly on your vaginal area.
-Wait for 10-12 minutes and then rinse off your vagina with lukewarm water.
12. Tea Tree Oil
Tea tree oil contains strong antifungal and antiseptic properties, thus, it can be used to get rid of the unpleasant vaginal odor.
– Add three drops of tea tree oil to a cup of water. Use this solution to rinse the affected area daily or several times a week.
– Alternatively, dip a tampon in olive oil and then put a little tea tree oil on it. Insert the tampon and leave it in for at least one hour. Do this several times a week.
Fenugreek is highly beneficial for women. It helps balance the hormones and promotes regular menstrual cycles, when consumed on a daily basis.
– Soak one or two teaspoons of fenugreek seeds in one cup of water before going to bed. The next morning, strain out the seeds and drink the water on an empty stomach.
– You can also use fenugreek seeds to make herbal tea. To prepare this tea, boil one teaspoon of fenugreek seeds in a cup of water. Strain and drink it two times a day.
14. Kegel Exercises
Kegel exercises are “clench-and-release” workouts that can make the pelvic floor muscles stronger almost instantly. These exercises can be done at home or anywhere, without anyone even noticing that you are looking for ways to tighten your vagina!
Firstly, you need to find your pelvic floor muscles – you can feel these muscles by paying attention to what it feels like when stopping urination in midstream.
If you succeed, you have located the right muscles. Once you have located your pelvic floor muscles, tighten the contraction for about 5 seconds, before relaxing for another 5 seconds.
15. Do Squats
Squats will help you regain that lost strength and elasticity in your vagina. If you have never performed squats in your life, you may find them difficult to do at first. But, once you get used to doing them, you’ll realize it has a lot of additional advantages for your body.
Bonus – squats will also give you a fantastic butt!
– Simply stand with your feet outside of your hip width and place your toes out.
– Level your feet.
– Pretend that you are going to sit on a chair, with your spine erect and chest lifted. As you stand, be sure to push through your heel to stand back up onto your
Want to know what your man is thinking as you crawl into bed? The male brain’s needs, fears, and secret desires will surprise you
TALK MORE LIKE A MAN
We don’t mean to clear your throat, speak in deeper tones, and scratch your privates between declaratives. Just get to the point quicker. As much as men love the sound of your voice and really love to help you out, their attention spans are short. Their minds will wander if they don’t see a climax and conclusion on your story’s horizon. So, as you are sharing the details of today’s run-in with Brenda from Business Affairs, skip the transcript of the exchange and create a highlight reel. He’ll get the gist if you keep it short and just say what’s on your mind—like most men talk when talking with other guys
But, remember, he’s not hearing the story for story’s sake. He’s looking for a problem to fix for you. So, if there isn’t one or you’re not really looking for solutions, broadcast that to him in black and white: “I’m not looking for you to fix anything; I feel better just having you understand how I’m feeling.” Say it your way. Suddenly, you will have given him the reward he was looking for—the satisfaction of having provided something of value to you, the woman he cares about.
HE DIGS IT DOGGY STYLE
Doing it like the lions on the Discovery Channel is arguably the most popular and arousing position for men. Men love the primal element and find the fantasy submissiveness highly erotic. No wonder it’s also the most difficult position for men to hold off orgasm.
TO FIND OUT WHAT HE LIKES, ASK
Guys can be shy about telling you what really turns them on and how they like to be touched down there. So, ask. Your permission to be open will create a safe, comfortable atmosphere that can turn into some really hot sex.
Ask him to demonstrate how he masturbates while thinking of you. Note the way he grips his shaft and mimic it. Also, become familiar with his frenulum, one of the most sensitive areas of the penis, which is on the underside of the head. Playful licks and light pressure to the frenulum often coax more blood into the penis for even harder erections. When stimulating him manually, wrap your hand around his penis so that the fleshy pads of your fingers, not the fingertips, rub over the frenulum. Try using a lube—it will make the experience more pleasurable for both of you. Place his hand over yours so he can guide you up and down just the way he likes it.
To double his pleasure, stimulate another erogenous zone while playing with his penis—his anus, his testicles, his nipples. Lick the nerve-rich seam running down the middle of his scrotum, then gently push up against the base of his testicles with your hand. That’s a way to arouse his prostate, the sensitive gland known as the male G-spot, without having to insert a finger in his anus, according to author Ian Kerner.
THE DOUBLE-HANDED BUTT GRAB
Wrapping your hands around his derriere will make him feel wanted, which will turn him on more than any Victoria’s Secret undergarment. Don’t be shy about squeezing hard. It’s plenty padded back there.
HE WANTS MORE FOREPLAY
You think we’re kidding. Well, the vast majority of men responding to The Big Book of Sex survey said they expect foreplay to last 15 minutes or longer, on par with what the women respondents think.
Slow-burning sex isn’t better only for you. “Longer foreplay helps men synchronize with their partners, giving them confidence and, as a result, better control over ejaculation,” says San Francisco sex therapist Seth Prosterman, PhD. Men know that it takes women longer to become aroused. So, relax and take your time, and put some of your own effort into getting in a sexual mood, suggests Gardos. Fantasize the way you do when you are masturbating alone. Grab your vibrator or use your fingers to start to rev things up. He’ll love watching you. When he stimulates you with his hand, guide him to show him how you like to be touched. Your magic phrase? “Like this.” That’s all—he’ll get the picture. Slip one hand down his backside and pull his pelvis toward you, showing him the motion that turns you on. Don’t forget your line: “Like this.”
During sex, switch positions—you on top. Slowly kiss him along his neck and collarbone. Linger by his belt line, looking up at him as you kiss his abdomen. Then go down on him slowly, looking up at him as you take him into your mouth—which men find to be an incredible turn on.
KEEP THE LIGHTS ON
There’s nothing sexier than a woman who lets her guard down in bed. “He loves when he can see and feel your body, and the biggest turnoff for him is your acting embarrassed,” says Pepper Schwartz, PhD, a relationships advisor for Perfectmatch.com and author of Prime: Adventures and Advice on Sex, Love, and the Sensual Years. So create an environment where you can enjoy yourself—candles, lingerie, whatever you need to relax and feel beautiful. Trust us; he doesn’t see the imperfections that women tend to zone in on—all he knows is that he loves your body.
WATCH PORN WITH HIM
According to a study at Brigham Young University, 87 percent of men have looked at some form of porn in the past year, and one in five checks out X-rated fare daily. That’s probably not surprising to anyone, but what is shocking is how quickly men can become dependent on regular doses of erotic images. The arousal hormones the visuals trigger can become addictive.
If you feel erotic material is interfering with your relationship or he’s using it to avoid something, you should confront the problem, says sex therapist Sandor Gardos, PhD. One tactic is to suggest watching erotica together. “It becomes compulsive when he feels like he has to hide it,” says Gardos. But willingness to share his interest takes the compulsion out of the question. Viewing erotic images together may even enhance your sex life, say sex experts. Focus on genres that you prefer, which are likely to be films containing more storytelling and romance versus raw humping.
BE MORE ASSERTIVE
As much as a man likes to be in control, the bedroom is one place where he would like to see you take more control—and we don’t mean by grabbing the TV remote. Be the one to initiate sex. When you take charge, you affirm your desire for him, something he needs both in and out of the bedroom. Take advantage of his notorious propensity for visual cues.
Outside of the bedroom, wear strapless dresses that flash a bit of flesh. Wear his boxers around the house. Leaving something to be imagined will drive him wild as men get turned on even more by what they can’t see. Slip into the shower with him and soap him up. At a fancy dinner at a restaurant, clue him in to the fact that you’re not wearing any underwear, and see how fast he finishes his crème brulee. When you are shifting from one sex position to another, take him into your mouth and look up at him for a few seconds, then turn around and offer him rear entry. These are just some secret desires we’ve heard from guys. We’re sure you can think of many more.
SEDUCE HIM WITH SUBTLETY
Skip the Lady Gaga impersonation. “With so much explicit imagery in the media, too much exposure isn’t seductive,” says Robert W. Birch, PhD, a sex therapist. Instead, play a little hide-and-seek. Let your shirt fall from your shoulder, undo one more button, or wear a fitted blouse over a lacy bra and watch him ogle you all night long. “Allow the peep to appear unintentional,” Birch says.
ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT IN BED
Men aren’t the best mind readers. But they understand coaching, having spent years playing organized sports. So most of them respond well to feedback and direction. In fact, they would very much enjoy hearing what you’d like them to do to you in bed. If you’re not really comfortable asking for specifics, take the pressure off by talking in generalities when you’re not in bed. Once you’re between the sheets, “turn requests into erotic expressions, not instructions,” says Joy Davidson, PhD, a sex therapist in New York and author of Fearless Sex. “Saying ‘Oh, do that slower,’ isn’t an order, it’s sexy.”
LAUGH WITH AND AT HIM
After her body, her sense of humor is the most attractive thing about women for men who responded to The Big Book of Sex survey. But that doesn’t mean you have to be quick with jokes and witty one-liners. Simply being able to laugh with him, at him, and at yourself is a sign of intellectual compatibility, says Billy Goldberg, MD, coauthor of Why Do Men Fall Asleep After Sex? “Men want a woman who is as comfortable relating her own ridiculous anecdote as she is listening to ours.”
GIVE HIM PROPS
Remember how hard you worked on those show-and-tell projects in kindergarten, and how good you felt when the class clapped and, at home, dad said “attagirl”? Men are, in many ways, kindergarteners who want nothing more desperately than your appreciation and respect for their hard work. Because that recognition rarely comes from their bosses, it’s even more critical that you give it to them on occasion at home when they do something particularly thoughtful or skillful. Men grow up with cultural expectations to be strong and brave, to suppress their emotions, fears, and hurts, so it may be very difficult to detect this need beneath their stoic armor. But, rest assured, it’s there; men can be insecure.
One of the most effective ways to show your love for him is to fulfill his need to feel valued and needed as provider and protector. In a poll of Men’s Health readers, 66 percent said they want women to compliment them on an intangible yet specific quality, something they uniquely possess. Be sincere: “I love how you always can make me feel better” is much more effective than “You’re wonderful” because it reinforces his efforts to care for you.
GRAB HOLD OF HIS HAND
Many women think that men don’t like cuddling, handholding, and other non-sexual forms of closeness; they’re wrong. Men enjoy it as much as you do, but they are conditioned to hide these deep desires to avoid the appearance of weakness—”non-maleness”—in front of other men and even from you. When you display your love in public by grabbing his hand, planting a brief but passionate kiss, touching his thigh with your hand, or grazing his arm with your breasts on purpose, you demonstrate confidence in your sexuality, which men find irresistible.
THE BIGGEST SECRET SEXUAL TURN ON FOR MEN
It’s not oral sex or the downward dog position, a new sex toy or lube—not even the prospect of a threesome. It’s your unbridled enthusiasm and confidence in bed. Remember that men are action- and accomplishment-oriented. So it is exciting for him to know that he is pleasing you, that you want him and are enjoying him as much as he’s enjoying you.
The more interactive sex is, the better sex is for him and for you. Eighty-seven percent of men say “just lying there” is a serious turnoff, and 57 percent say that silence is a sexual downer. That doesn’t mean that you need to have an orgasm to make him feel whole. Don’t put that kind of pressure on yourself or him. But you’ll satisfy him by letting him know what feels good to you and what he’s doing right. Grip the sheets. Grab the headboard. Moan into his ear and talk dirty. Plead. Demand. Direct.
“All great sexual encounters deliver a sense of validation that you really have something special,” says Prosterman. And your over-the-top passion can help a man feel closer to you emotionally—something guys say is one of the most important elements of unforgettable sex.
Celebrities often have to deal with increased media scrutiny, meaning there’s a much higher chance their infidelity will eventually get caught. When it comes to standard of living, celebrities do get to enjoy the upper-rung. Considering they get paid mill
Celebrities often have to deal with increased media scrutiny, meaning there’s a much higher chance their infidelity will eventually get caught.
When it comes to standard of living, celebrities do get to enjoy the upper-rung. Considering they get paid millions of dollar per movie, they have the luxury of getting to afford the finer side of life; the beachside villas in Spain, the supercars, the most luxurious food, you name it. But because they live most of their lives out in public, they will no doubt be hounded by countless paparazzi who are just waiting for them to fall or make a mistake.
We can only imagine it’s hard having a peaceful relationship with your significant other when you practically have zero privacy. Of course, the fact that every aspect of their lives is under the microscope eventually takes their toll; which is why these celebrities often go through a carousel of partners and why their marriages never seem to last. These 15 celebrities were unfortunate enough to have their infidelity exposed directly in the media and were embarrassed for it:
#15 Jennifer Lopez
In the late 90s, Lopez developed a relationship with her backup dancer Chris Judd, and the couple was married from September 2001 to June 2002. During the time of their breakup, Lopez was working on a film, Gigli, with Ben Affleck and rumors quickly began to surface that the duo was having a fling. The friction between Affleck and Lopez eventually led to her divorce with Judd due to ‘irreconcilable differences’ and ‘Bennifer’ would commence a high-profile relationship with one another.
Heidi Klum got engaged to musician Seal in December 2004 and the couple married in May 2005. They have three biological children together and all was rosy until allegations began to emerge that Klum was cheating on Seal with her bodyguard. The cracks soon became obvious and the couple filed for divorce in 2007, after seven years together. Klum later admitted to ‘seeing’ her bodyguard Martin Kristen and was in a relationship with him from September 2012 until early 2014.
#13 Jessica Simpson
Jessica Simpson married Nick Lachey in October 2002 and the couple would remain together until Simpson filed for divorce in December 2005, citing ‘irreconcilable differences.’ Throughout 2005, Simpson was rumored to be having an affair with Maroon 5 singer Adam Levine. The affair was all but confirmed in January 2006 when Simpson was seen leaving an L.A. hotel wearing Levine’s t-shirt after the two supposedly spent the night together.
#12 Jude Law
While filming Alfie in late 2003, Law and co-star Sienna Miller began a relationship and became engaged on Christmas day 2004. However, the engagement did not last very long. On July 8, 2005, Law issued a public apology to Miller for having an affair with his children’s nanny. He had three children from his previous marriage with Sadie Frost and the affair led to the couple’s separation in November 2006. Miller got back at Law by cheating on him with her Layer co-star, Daniel Craig.
#11 Ethan Hawke
Hawke married Uma Thurman in May 1998. The couple had first met on the sets of Gattaca in 1996 and had quickly fallen in love with one another. They had two children together but the marriage would last only five years, until 2003. Rumors began swirling about that Hawke had cheated on Thurman with his children’s nanny and amidst these allegations of infidelity, the couple filed for divorce. Hawke then married the former nanny, Ryan, in 2008.
#10 Larry King
Larry King has had a very colorful personal life. The legendary TV show host has been married eight times, to seven women and has five children and nine grandchildren, as well as four great-grandchildren. So it’s no surprise to learn that King has cheated a few times on his partner. However, the manner in which he cheated on his seventh wife, Shawn Southwick, definitely caught the eye.
Southwick is 26 years King’s junior and is the mother of two of his children, but that did not stop him from cheating on her. With her younger sister of all people. It then came to light that Southwick had also cheated on King with a baseball coach. The two filed for divorce but eventually reconciled.
#9 Anne Heche
Heche started dating talk show host Ellen DeGeneres in 1997, and at one point, said they would get a civil union if such became legal in Vermont. The couple’s breakup in 2000 caught widespread media attention and it turned out that Heche had been cheating on Ellen with Coleman “Coley” Laffoon, a cameraman whom she met the previous year on DeGeneres’ stand-up comedy tour. The two would end up marrying and have a son together. But this marriage ended in divorce as well and it turned out that Heche had cheated again. This time, with her Men in Trees co-star James Tupper.
#8 Meg Ryan
Ryan married actor Dennis Quaid in February 1991. They are said to have fallen in love during the shooting of their second film together, D.O.A. They had one child together but separated and divorced one another in 2001. Ryan claimed that Quaid had been unfaithful to her for a very long time, but it’s more than likely that it’s the other way around. Ryan was caught cheating on her husband of ten years with her Proof of Life co-star Russell Crowe in 2000, causing their marriage to end.
#7 Rob Kardashian
Kardashian dated actress Adrienne Bailon from 2007 until 2009 and their relationship was very well-documented on his family’s reality TV show, Keeping Up with the Kardashians. Bailon was a former member of the short-lived pop group “The Cheetah Girls” and their relationship was so serious, that he even tattoed her name across his chest. But it was all for show. Following rumors of cheating and infidelity, the couple split and Kardashian soon revealed on Twitter that he was dating singer Rita Ora.
#6 Jack Nicholson
Between 1973 and 1990, Nicholson had an on-again, off-again relationship with actress Anjelica Huston. While their relationship lasted 17 long years, it was an open-secret that Nicholson cheated on Houston numerous times with multiple women during the course of their relationship. The straw that broke the camel’s back was the fact that he ended up getting actress Rebecca Broussard pregnant in 1989. He would go on to also have a son with Broussard.
#5 Kristen Stewart
Five years ago, Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson were co-stars for the mega-hit Twilight franchise. They were also very much in love with one another and had been dating for around three years. The couple’s picture perfect love came crashing down when Stewart was caught cheating on Pattinson with her married Snow White and the Huntsman director Rupert Sanders. The notoriously publicity-shy Stewart issued a direct apology to Pattinson, and the couple has since moved on, both romantically and professionally.
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The ‘Queen of Pop’ has had a long and illustrious career in the music industry and just as colorful a personal life to go along with it. She met Guy Ritchie in November 1998 and the couple had a son together. Though Madonna denied cheating on her then-husband Ritchie with baseball star Alex Rodriguez, the ‘Material Girl’ was frequently photographed with A-Rod. The baseball superstar was also seen visiting Madonna’s apartment during late-night hours. Madonna and Ritchie divorced later that year, as did Rodriguez and his wife Cynthia Scurtis, who supposedly left him as a result of the affair with Madonna.
#3 Brad Pitt
Brad Pitt was in a high profile relationship with Jennifer Aniston when he began filming Mr. & Mrs. Smith with Angelina Jolie. Pitt had married Aniston in 2000 and the couple filed for divorce in January 2005, following rumors that Pitt had cheated on Aniston with his co-star. While he initially denied there was anything between him and Jolie, it soon became obvious that they were a couple. They began appearing together in increasing frequency and ‘Brangelina’ became the ‘it’ couple of the decade. Sadly for most romantics, even their seemingly unbreakable relationship came to an end in September last year.
#2 Britney Spears
Oops, she did it again. If rumors are to be believed, then Britney Spears cheated on her then-beau Justin Timberlake not once, but twice. Her on-again, off-again relationship with Timberlake ended in December 2002, after the couple had dated for three years. Following the breakup, Timberlake released the song “Cry Me a River” as the second single from his solo debut album. The music video featured a Spears lookalike and fueled rumors that she had been unfaithful to him. She had reportedly cheated on him with her choreographer at the time, Wade Robson.
#1 Arnold Schwarzenegger
Schwarzenegger married television journalist Maria Shriver, niece of President John F Kennedy, in April 1986. The couple had four children but their seemingly perfect marriage ended in a messy divorce in 2011, after 25 years together. The Los Angeles Times then revealed that Schwarzenegger had fathered a son fourteen years earlier with the housemaid, Patricia Baena. After the scandal, actress Brigitte Nielsen came forward and stated that she too had an affair with Schwarzenegger while he was in a relationship with Shriver.
Can you tell your man is acting different and something is off? Obviously, things don’t always stay in the honeymoon phase but that doesn’t mean they should completely die down. You might want to ask him what’s wrong, but he won’t tell you. This is why we have figured it out for you instead!
15. He Needs Space
Obviously, no one wants to be in a situation where the guy they love doesn’t want to be around them anymore. This is a sign of a guy who wants to separate himself from the girl and wants to be alone. Uh-oh.
14. He Has New People Around Him
You know your man better than anyone so you can tell if he is acting weird and constantly has places to be with people you don’t know. This is especially worse if you aren’t invited because maybe he’s with someone else!
13. He Doesn’t Know Where Your Relationship Is Going Anymore
When someone wants to be with you, they know that they are going to take actions that will make you both connected. However, when they start losing interest they don’t know what they want to do anymore which makes the relationship confusing.
12. He’s Never Interested
You know when you are talking to someone and yeah they are physically there and you know that, but they just don’t mentally seem to be there. This means they are losing interest and don’t care anymore.
11. Date Night Is a Bore
At one time, you used to love date night and having someone who gives you so much attention but now it seems to be the opposite. Date night is not fun anymore and he is all to blame because he is never into it!
10. He Gives You So Many Excuses
Does he never want to do anything and seems to have the dumbest excuse? Or does he just seem to have excuses for everything? Well, unfortunately, this is a sign of someone who isn’t interested anymore.
9. He Think You Don’t Love Him
He keeps telling you that you don’t seem the same and are changing and what really makes you mad is when he claims you don’t love him anymore. Well, is it you who doesn’t love him or him who doesn’t love you? Interesting.
8. You Haven’t Spent a Night Together in a While
Maybe you haven’t realized but it has been a while since you both spent the night together. Obviously, this is a huge part of any relationship and if he doesn’t value this, maybe it means he doesn’t value the relationship.
7. He Doesn’t Try Anymore
You always think about the past when he used to do everything he possibly could just to see you happy and now it seems he doesn’t care at all. Well, don’t just disregard this clues, actually take them for what they are.
6. He’s Getting Cheap
Maybe you have noticed that he doesn’t want to pay for dinner or movies like he used to. What happened? Well if he loves you then he will want to treat you but since he’s not maybe there are somethings you should think over.
5. You Are Always Wrong in His Eyes
No matter what happens, no matter how hard you try, you always seem to be the one in the wrong. This is just how he makes himself feel better for treating you so badly.
4. He Wants to Change You
He used to tell you that he loves you for who you are but now he constantly wants to change you. This is because he doesn’t like who you are now and is trying to see if changing you will make you more appealing to him.
3. He’s More Forgetful
You make plans that you are very excited for but he forgets. Aww. Well, sadly this means that he wasn’t as excited for them as you were which means you don’t excite him anymore.
2. He Never Calls or Texts Back
No matter what he tells you, he can never be too busy to take a few seconds to reply to your message. This just shows that he wants to distance himself from you or likes to see you in a needy position. Either way, it’s not good!
1. He’s Too Busy
He never wants to spend time with you which is sad because that is the most important part of any relationship. He wants distance which only means he isn’t into it anymore.
Bullying is a worldwide issue. It happens at every school, and is something that needs to be talked about more. Bully victims and bullies increase and nothing is done to stop it. Higher authorities, such as teachers, guardians, and parents, sometimes fail to understand the gravity of the situation and the circumstances it puts a child into.
Bullying has many forms, including cyber bullying and physical bullying. Name-calling, teasing, pushing, shoving, are all common practices seen amongst bullies. They will call you out on your physical appearance and make life a living hell.
However, perhaps the worst form of physical bullying took place in Melbourne, Australia, when a 15-year-old girl committed suicide, giving in to the physical and mental torture of being bullied and eventually, raped. It was too much for little Cassidy Trevan, who found it easier to take her own life on the 12th of December, 2015.
Who was Cassidy Trevan?
Cassidy Trevan was a 15-year-old girl residing in Melbourne, Australia. She was a very frequent victim of bullying. A group of her girls from her school had started it, taking it too far on many occasions. She was psychologically abused, but later, that turned physical, as she was raped by two much older boys.
After this horrible incident, she took a break and tried to make a comeback after a term away. She started slowly this time, attending two days a week. However, as she got back, things seemingly took a turn for the better, as her former bullies now apologized to her in a very convincing way. Cassidy, desperately in need of friends, accepted their apology straightaway.
What followed was much worse …
What followed, however, was much worse than preceding incidents. Cassidy’s new ‘friends,’ in an attempt to make it up to her, invited her to a festival they were going to attend. She quickly accepted, and then, the worst thing imaginable took place.
The girls took her a house nearby where two boys were waiting. These boys were older, and were up to no good. Inside the house, they took turns raping Cassidy. It pretty much destroyed her on all fronts. The then 13-year-old plunged further into a world of misery, anxiety, PTSD, nightmares, and tears.
Comments from her mother …
Cassidy’s mother, Linda Trevan, commented openly on Facebook about the incidents that led to her daughter’s tragic fate.
Linda told media that Cassidy would often be slapped across the face by her bullies, who even left banana peels on her doorstep. They also used to abuse her on the internet and call her mother just so they could talk to Cassidy and terrorize her further. So much so, that a trip to the local shops would take a toll on her. After changing schools, Linda added, Cassidy was still being victimized by those girls. Linda even wrote an open letter on Facebook addressing the worldwide issue of bullying and how her daughter fell victim to it.
Cassidy, before committing suicide, had written a letter about all the terrible things that she was subjected to. Her mother found that letter, published by Australian Channel 9, and it read:
This tragic letter was found too little, too late; but in it, is a very powerful message from a victim herself. She clearly explains how one should fight for their life and seek help from people who would actually put in efforts.
Lessons galore …
A lot of lessons are to be learnt from this incident for students, teachers, and parents. If a child is complaining of a situation, they should be listened to. Otherwise, it could lead to terrible circumstances.
Parents should dig deeper into what their children are doing. Perhaps, if that was the case, Cassidy would still be among us today. Each one of us has a responsibility.
Cassidy’s tormentors, however, walked free, as she was afraid of giving a statement to the police. She was afraid of the aftermath. Thus, there was not enough proof.
The point remains that we should make sure our children are in a safe environment and if not, they should be moved far, far away. A check on their social media accounts should also be kept, and they should be made aware about help that is always available. Hopefully, all of us can learn from this incident and try to be more mature in the future. Bullies do it because they are low on self-esteem. Countless innocents have to suffer for the wrongdoings of others. For the sake of humanity, spare a thought. Save a life.